Support Meetings

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Meeting Date & Time Location
Parents of Trans Youth
(1st Saturday)
at 10:00 a.m. Small Conference Room
Redwood City Public Library*
1044 Middlefield Rd.
Redwood City
PFLAG en Español
(primer miércoles)
a las 7:30 p.m. NUEVA REUNIÓN
Alum Rock United Methodist Church
30 Kirk Ave.
San Jose
San Mateo
(2nd Monday)
at 7:00 p.m. San Mateo County Pride Center
1021 S. El Camino Real (at 11th)
San Mateo
San Jose
(2nd Wednesday)
at 7:30 p.m. First Congregational Church of San Jose
1980 Hamilton Ave. (at Leigh)
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*The space for our Parents of Trans Youth meeting is provided as a community service by the City of Redwood City. The City neither sponsors nor endorses this event nor the presenting individual or organizations.

Monthly Topics


San Mateo: Monday, June 12 Meet at 7:00 p.m.
Program to be announced.

San Jose: Wednesday, June 14 Meet at 7:30 p.m.
Maribel Martinez, Director of the Santa Clara County Office of LGBTQ Affairs, will tell us about her agency. (Santa Clara County became the first county in the nation with an office dedicated exclusively to the LGBTQ community when it opened the Office of LGBTQ Affairs just a year and half ago in January 2016.)

Small-group peer support will be offered at all meetings.


Never been to a Meeting...

If not, you may wonder what actually happens at our chapter support meetings. Do you have to talk? Do you have to announce that you are gay, lesbian, or transgender - or that your son or daughter or sibling or parent is gay? Do you have to become a member, sign up for a committee, or march in the next Gay Pride Parade? Will we ask you for money?

In fact, there is no pressure to speak up, or reveal anything beyond your own comfort level at our meetings. There is no pressure to become a PFLAG activist unless it's something that you really are ready for and want to do. You can receive the PFLAG newsletter free for three months - only if you ask to - before deciding if you want to join PFLAG. And Peninsula/San Jose PFLAG never shares its membership list with any other organization.

We are there to provide support for those in need. You'll find us a diverse, very friendly and sympathetic group with a variety of experiences. We were once in your shoes, and approached our first PFLAG meeting with trepidation. As parents, friends, and/or GLBT people, we now share our journeys and learn from each other. Some of our stories may be helpful to you in sorting out your own conflicting and painful feelings.Our programs may give you helpful information and new insights.

We are also there to celebrate your successes, and to help galvanize you into action when you are ready to take an active role in making our world a safer and healthier place for all our families. So don't be shy - please join us! You'll be glad you did, and we will be, too!

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Straight Spouse Support Group

There is support for the straight partner whose GLBT partner has come out. The group usually meets the 3rd Thursday of the month.

For more information, send an email to straightspouse@pflagsanjose.org Or call our Help Line:(408) 270-8182

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